Family morals and cheating

 We were all young, or you are still young or less young, and we were or were still planning a life as a couple. And most of us, with all the promises of eternal love, planned for a more serious love relationship, including sexual fidelity. In short, sexual fidelity was and still is a kind of moral obligation of everyone who enters into a more serious love relationship.

People really like to be in a love relationship, even one that is not immortalized in a marriage office or even with a church wedding ceremony, we somehow appropriate our partner and, whether openly or not, we expect sexual fidelity. Cheating or being in some other love relationship with another person or even bigamy is something undesirable or even forbidden in a serious love relationship for most lovers and married couples. Anyone who wants a so-called serious love relationship or a life together and marriage and, of course, creating a family should be prepared for such expectations in terms of sexual fidelity or the prohibition of cheating or infidelity. Changing sexual partners or "swinging" very rarely works out and mostly tears apart an existing love relationship or partnership or family.

  Forgiveness of sexual infidelity is rarely present in a serious love relationship. At the very least, forgiveness of sexual infidelity without penance or some kind of constant "worm" of suspicion of sexual infidelity again. In fact, in most cases, sexual infidelity also leads to the destruction of love and the breakup of a love relationship, and of course, in the case of marriage, also to divorce.

If cheating or changing sexual partners is in our character or in our "blood", as well as testing our sexual attractiveness and conquering new sexually attractive people again and again, it is better to stay alone, maybe even without children. In short, with the status of a single person without a serious relationship, we do not complicate our life at home at all, since it is possible to change sexual partners completely freely. Heart problems and traumas and painful heart experiences and tears are not exactly present in such relationships. Likewise, a single person who does not want or is not capable of a permanent love relationship does not make anyone else unhappy, least of all his children, who lived or would live in the illusion of a perfect happy family, which was built on the foundation of love. In the event of a family breakup due to infidelity, or simply put, in the event that the mother and father no longer love each other and want other sexual love partners, the child begins to cope with the traumatic experience of the decaying love idyll of his parents due to this illusion of a perfect happy family. In fact, with sexual love cheating, we can predict a family consisting of individual traumatized and disappointed persons and children. It can also be traumatizing and disappointing for someone who, during one serious love relationship, also started another and simply dragged her along by promising to end the first love relationship.