Unconditional love

 We often meet so-called loving and sensitive people. People should put their hearts first, not their minds. Our human heart in recent times, as well as in the past, should also know unconditional love for others. It is also possible that only a certain group of people or individuals expect unconditional love from others.

The conditioning of love is supposed to be forgotten, although many times the conditioning of love meant love of reciprocity. The conditioning of love means that when you are good to us, we are also good to you. This also means that first of all you will be good to others so that others can love you. In this way, the conditioning of love should direct people to positive emotions and positive actions and positive attitudes towards others.

Conditioning love with a positive attitude towards others means that only then will they be able to love you. It also meant that you should not expect love from others if you have a negative, contemptuous, humiliating, aggressive attitude towards them. In short, if you want love from others, never start a relationship in a negative way. Conditioning love means that with your positive attitude, you also awaken positive feelings of love in others. If we are hostile, humiliating or otherwise negative towards others, we cannot expect anything good from others either. The most we can expect from our humiliating activity is, on the other hand, reactivity with humiliating.

By implementing unconditional love in our daily life, we have easily turned a mutually positive relationship or a mutually negative relationship into a one-sided love relationship or a generally one-sided emotional relationship. It depends on us whether we are really capable of loving or praising or appreciating someone even in the case of their negative, humiliating, contemptuous or cruel attitude towards us, or, simply put, in the position of a victim. In the past, some psychoanalysts have warned about the development of psychosomatic diseases, or diseases that develop due to psychological reactions of the soul and body in the case of a humiliating or even violent social environment or even the family itself. Some even advised, and still advise today, that we immediately get out of a negative, violent or humiliating environment, or we make sure that such rhetorical or physical "bullies" and violent persons are removed from our social and family environment.

Of course, we can be pleasantly surprised if we have social interaction with people who spread only positive emotions towards others. And of course, if the people we meet don't expect unconditional love from us.

In short, it is necessary to think carefully if you would advertise or present yourself as an emotional person whose first priority is a heart that feels unconditional love, because in this way you can easily present yourself to others as the desired victim of their sadism. And perhaps the advertising of unconditional love adds fuel to the fire of negative human emotions by sadism and negative attitudes towards others.